It is not always easy with men. I remember when I had a partner, he was always running around, always sitting in some pub or going to some party. I also remember that sometimes I wanted to relax at home and watch TV with my partner, but my partner didn\’t want to do that. My partner was more into hanging out with friends. I wouldn\’t have minded being there, but he didn\’t want to spend his youth anywhere but at home. And the worst part was that we wanted to have children, but he immediately said that he would not sit at home with me, that I would go on maternity leave with him, that we would go to parties, work, etc.
I was absolutely against it. How could my partner say that? Do all men do this? If all men did this, I don\’t think we would have children. Or I can never explain it. But when I compare my ex-partner to my brother, it\’s like heaven and earth. They are like fire and water. I guess my brother still just wants to sit at home with his kids and partner and enjoy normal love and family life. 26]
With no kids yet, I don\’t understand why my partner doesn\’t want to dedicate at least half of it, at least one day a week, to me alone. But he doesn\’t want to do it, always for an hour or a little longer at most, and other than that he always wants to be with friends or in a large group. But what\’s wrong with spending an evening, or a whole day, or 24 hours with me? With my partner. So in the end, it didn\’t suit me at all. And I had to leave my partner. I really couldn\’t take it anymore, and I wanted a life with a romantic partner.