A topic that is discussed quite often. But what do men actually do to influence women – girlfriends, boyfriends, or eventually wives? Each of the above categories of women has its own “rules.”
The female friend is happy with a man who is not particularly handsome, but rather a reliable partner. A friend who listens to her, goes out for coffee or dancing with her – in this case, he must be able to dance! In other words, empathy, having free time, and being willing to listen are important here.
The girlfriend is already more interested in the man, even in his appearance. If he wants to share the bedroom, he should find her sexually attractive and arousing. In other words, here the man is primarily attracted to his appearance, to his personal appearance, and to his ability to please his girlfriend, not only in bed, but also with unexpected surprises.
What about wives, then, what attracts them to their husbands? Probably all of the above. In marriage, however, it would be very little! But it is not the overall appearance that a woman appreciates here, but the spark that is ignited when two people meet, and whether the man can still fan that spark. What does that mean?
Whether you can make your partner stand out from everyone else! She is the only one who is worthy of you, you are only interested in her after all, and you believe that if you can show that, she will be a devoted wife to you. But only as long as you continue to favor her with your wonderful presence. Loving her, in other words, means hugging her before you leave for work, and when you return, even if you are too busy dragging your problems home, hug her again between the doors and kiss her hard. You dash out the door, don\’t let her carry heavy shopping bags, and help her put on her coat at the movie theater. When she is sick, you don\’t worry that her picture isn\’t painted, you don\’t look at her swollen face, you lovingly understand, you make time for herbs for her, you help her feel that you care for her. 
And the standard is to remember her holidays, birthdays, and wedding anniversaries. If you want to go even further, send her flowers the day you met!
Then there are the less pleasant things, like changing your own socks, not wiping your clothes all over the room, folding the toilet seat, not getting old.
And what is it about a man that attracts a woman in a unique way? That he loves her, that he keeps her in his heart, that she is the best woman in the world to him. That way, the woman feels like a princess and believes that she will do the first and last thing for you.