Being a great parent is not easy!

Are you trying to be a good mother and loving your children but still feel it is not enough? What do your children really need? What do you need to change?

Being a great parent is not easy!

Parenting is perhaps the most difficult role in the world, but also the most beautiful. Being a parent is great, being a parent is hard, and being a really good parent is even harder. Sometimes, despite our best efforts and doing the best we can, it\’s not enough. Sometimes we pet our children, sometimes we talk to them, sometimes we yell at them, and sometimes we are unable to understand them. We must continue to tell our children how much we love them, no matter the obstacles, no matter how hard it is at times.

A mother\’s love can be expressed in many ways

Even mothers are understandably tired. But the child must always feel secure with you and secure in the fact that you love him unconditionally. After all, there is no one else but you who will love your child despite his or her flaws. If you want to build a strong relationship with your child, you must do everything in your power. From touch to actions to words of comfort. A child needs all of this, even if it is obvious that you don\’t want it. Young children are happy to cuddle, but teenagers are not. Still, we need to make an effort to show our love. Never stand still. Even if sometimes you have to raise your voice and scold them or forbid them to do something.

Talking to your children, hugging them, gazing at them, petting them, will give them much more love than you think you can. Of course, children need to hear it too, but you don\’t have to say it over and over again. They just need to be able to express it in the same way over and over again, without having to say the words.

Actions and experiences, not things

Children do not need as many material things as you might think. Even if your child is begging for a new cell phone, he or she will ultimately be much happier if you go out for pizza or ice cream or take a trip together. So, focus on spending time with your children, make memories together, and spend energy, time, and money on being together. The zeitgeist suggests that children don\’t want this anymore, but that\’s not true. We don\’t express our love for our children by buying them new things; we express our love by being together and experiencing things together.

Are you trying to be a good mother and loving your children but still feel it is not enough? What do your children really need? What do you need to change?

Being a great parent is not easy!

Parenting is perhaps the most difficult role in the world, but also the most beautiful. Being a parent is great, being a parent is hard, and being a really good parent is even harder. Sometimes, despite our best efforts and doing the best we can, it\’s not enough. Sometimes we pet our children, sometimes we talk to them, sometimes we yell at them, and sometimes we are unable to understand them. We must continue to tell our children how much we love them, no matter the obstacles, no matter how hard it is at times.

A mother\’s love can be expressed in many ways

Even mothers are understandably tired. But the child must always feel secure with you and secure in the fact that you love him unconditionally. After all, there is no one else but you who will love your child despite his or her flaws. If you want to build a strong relationship with your child, you must do everything in your power. From touch to actions to words of comfort. A child needs all of this, even if it is obvious that you don\’t want it. Young children are happy to cuddle, but teenagers are not. Still, we need to make an effort to show our love. Never stand still. Even if sometimes you have to raise your voice and scold them or forbid them to do something.

Talking to your children, hugging them, gazing at them, petting them, will give them much more love than you think you can. Of course, children need to hear it too, but you don\’t have to say it over and over again. They just need to be able to express it in the same way over and over again, without having to say the words.

Actions and experiences, not things

Children do not need as many material things as you might think. Even if your child is begging for a new cell phone, he or she will ultimately be much happier if you go out for pizza or ice cream or take a trip together. So, focus on spending time with your children, make memories together, and spend energy, time, and money on being together. The zeitgeist suggests that children don\’t want this anymore, but that\’s not true. We don\’t express our love for our children by buying them new things; we express our love by being together and experiencing things together.